Jun 18, 2015

Two Wives. Thoughts Aloud

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crédito de foto:Two Wives. Worthy Idea?

Today, we hear a lot about men who have two or more wifes. At the same time everybody knows that polygamy, typical for some Islamic countries, is not quite applicable for European countries. What do men do? Why do they need more wives? For what? The first plausible reason is when a wife is unable to have children, while men very much want them. In accordance with the Western laws a man must either accept his wife's childlessness, or if he cannot, he has to find a means of divorce in order to get marry again.

There are other cases where a marriage has not been very blooming and the husband loves, respect another woman. This situation is so familiar nowadays, that it is known as the love triangle. Under Western laws a husband is responsible and may not marry another woman without divorcing the first one. But, on the other hand, the first wife may not wish to be divorced. She may no longer love her husband, but she may still respect him and wish to stay with him for the financial stability, and for the sake of the marriage, pursuing her own interests and their children’s. There are some cases, for example where both women could accept a polygamous marriage rather than official divorce or an extramarital affairs.

But such a situation exists only in Western laws. In Islam, limited polygamy is permitted. The reason is that a man is more polygamous by nature as compared to a woman.  The Muslim law  is loyal to men, only he can have up to four wives at one time, but the woman is only to have one husband. And of course, divorce is not allowable and if the man passes away, leaving his other half and mistresses and children, there will be big fight for his heritage.

Joke: “The Man and His Two Wives”

In the old days, when men were allowed to have many wives, a middle-aged Man had one wife that was old and one that was young; each loved him very much, and desired to see him like herself. Now the Man's hair was turning grey, which the young Wife did not like, as it made him look too old for her husband. So every night she used to comb his hair and pick out the white ones. But the elder wife saw her husband growing grey with great pleasure, for she did not like to be mistaken for his mother. So every morning she used to arrange his hair and pick out as many of the black ones as she could. The consequence was the Man soon found himself entirely bald.

Yield to everybody and you will soon have nobody to yield to.

Don't make such a mistake, you will be “as bald as an egg“.

To sum it up, I want to say that the best solution for a “normal” European man is to have one wife, who he will love and respect. But if a man extremely needs to have more chilly emotions with another girl, the best idea is to go to an escorts agency or just a classifieds website (and websites like http://www.gogoescorts.co.uk are highly popular in any countrye, not just the United Kingdom). Such agencies are confidential and you can't worry about your wife thoughts and about the fight for your heritage.

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